For Parents Worried About Bullying
⚠️NO CHILD⚠️in Michigan (or anywhere) should EVER be bullied, for any reason, period.
Unfortunately however, that statement alone will not stop it from happening.
In this video, I share with you ONE TRAIT that can certainly help keep your child safe…
🚫Spoiler Alert🚫It’s not what you think!
Hey Parents, Denny Strecker here from Denny Streckers Karate.
I have had the distinct pleasure and responsibility to teach thousands of kids in Michigan how to be stronger mentally, physically, emotionally and socially.
I get to talk to a lot of parents and it seems like the stress, anxiety and worry level for parents is really high right now with regards to bullying.
You know it’s a terrible thing to watch someone be bullied but it’s even worse to see the net effect of it.
Kids are being bullied in their neighborhoods, they are being bullied at school, and they are being bullied on social media.
You and I both know that when they get older that the bullying won’t exist anymore, but to a child it’s their entire world right now. They are not sure how to deal with it.
The good news is there are some tools. And there is one character trait in particular that really can reduce the effect that bullying has on your child. And it’s called CONFIDENCE.
You can look around throughout your day and spot a confident person OR someone who is having a bad day just by their body language.
This reminds me of a story many years ago, I had a mom call me up because she wanted to come in and find out more about my lessons. It turns out her 8 year old son was being bullied.
When I met him, he came walking in the door and you could see the defeat all over his face. It turns out that this particular school year was really difficult for him and prior to that he had been a happy go lucky kid.
I guess some kids at school were being mean to him, they didn’t want to be his friend and he was taking it really hard. He didn’t want to go to school. He was starting to withdraw from everybody. His mom knew right away that she needed to do something about it.
For whatever reason she chose martial arts and I am thankful for that. He began to move differently with more confidence. He began to have a little smile. He started to make friends in the class. He is on his way now into my leadership program and doing a terrific job.
Now confidence doesn’t eliminate bullying but it allows kids to deal with it differently, because when you are walking around and you feel confident, you stand tall, and you feel good, it sends a different message to the world.
Here is my challenge to you. Over the next 24 hours, do nothing but encourage your child to stand tall.
Do nothing but encourage them to look you in the eye and smile.
And every time they do it, get them a high five. Give them a big hug and a kiss and tell them that you love them.
Because it is the parent support that matters. It’s unconditional. They need to know that you really care about them unconditionally. And that you want to help them through this, because you are their biggest influencer. And you are their biggest cheerleader.
Kudos to you if you are still watching this video. I know all parents love their kids, but not everyone is going to take the time to try and make things better for their kid.
So congratulations to you. If you found this information useful, please share it.
Have a good day!